After her ex-hubby Tchidi Chikere took to Twitter yesterday to embarrass
her, Sophia released her reply to him, exclusively through Linda Ikeji's
blog. And in it, she revealed another side to the already ugly story.
Worst part was reading that her innocent kids are being asked about this
at school, that their sons' schoolmates are also discussing this. You
can't even imagine how embarassing this is for the poor boys.
Here's Sophia's reply:
...Tchidi Chikere, I read all you said about me and I laugh. Is
that the best way to justify yourself? It is well. I will not exchange
words with you still because there is nothing you say or write about me
that will shake me because those that put their trust in God, He never
fails them.
Why are you lying to people? For them to turn around and clap for you and justify what you
did? Is it because people who know the truth are saying it and it's
hurting you and you are now looking for a way to justify yourself. I
give 10 years of my life and this is how you repay me? By disrespecting
me and my family?
You said I used juju to marry you. If truly I and my family used
juju to hold you, let God who sees everything judge me and you. You
bring money for the upkeep of your kids and you are writing about it?
Like seriously, are they not your kids? Whose responsibility is that?
And who is disputing that with you? You said since you married me that I
have not given you no love, no affection etc but you forgot the
interview you granted to Punch newspaper in 2011 saying that I am the
best thing that have happened to you.
You said I never had time for you? When you are always filming in
the east and I won't see you in months. I played the role of father and
mother to the kids...and I laughed the more when I saw where you wrote
that I didn't feed you for 5 days.. Is this all in desperation to
justify yourself? Wow!!
You said marriages are not contracted on the pages of newspaper and
granting interviews yet you people have been granting interviews upon
interviews since 2012.. Have I said anything against you? But I won't
say anything against you. Keep saying lies about me thinking you can
tarnish my image by putting up this childish and immature behavior. Even
if you say that I am a prostitute tomorrow or a thief, people who know
the truth know the truth and God knows everything and sees the heart and
he will pay everybody back according to our deeds. So am not shaking!!
I will never say anything against you to gain favour from people!
No you can't hide pregnancy. I gave you my life for 12 years, gave you 3
lovely boys, gave you a home. And you always say to me then, I was a
good wife to you and you know it. I was loyal to you and never cheated
on you. I swallowed and stomached so many things just to make my
marriage work. I turned deaf ears to so many things and covered my eyes
to so many things. I remember all the stories I heard about your
escapades with other women, but did I leave you? I stayed with you
because marriage is for better or worse and when you started your affair
with Nuella in 2010, what did you say to me when I confronted you? I
stayed, endured and prayed every night.
Have you forgotten the day I almost committed suicide? The first
time you left me and the kids? I wanted to end my life but God saved me.
Even as you left us in 2012, I keep saying to people that my marriage
is intact and I never changed my name from Sophia Tchidi Chikere till
date. Have you not done enough to me?
You are married now and still I wish you and your new wife well.
Why can't you leave me alone to face my children and fill up the vacuum
this has created in their lives? You say such evil things against their
mother and they are hearing it from their schoolmates. Their schoolmates
are talking about it and asking them questions everyday and yet your
not satisfied. You claim you kept quiet because of them, yet you have
been talking and tarnishing my image since 2012? Yet I kept mute. I have
not and will never say anything bad against you. Vengeance is of the
Lord, unless he is not on the throne.
You put up my pictures with my friend to use against me? You want
to use it to justify what you did to me? What you put me through for
years? You said he is my boyfriend that I go to see in London and I ask
you Tchidi, when I was with you, did I not go to London 2 or 3 times
yearly to buy clothes for my boutique? Everybody knows that I am a
business woman and I buy my products from London and America. And so
because I have a friend in London, I now go there just to see him?
Lol He is my friend, my pal, my buddy and my best friend. We
started being good friends in 2013 after Chidi left me and ended our
marriage. He is someone that is very close to me and my confidant. All
these years I have had women as best friends and they all betrayed me,
and I decided to have a guy as my best friend. We go everywhere together
and he assists me in shopping and buying things for my shop etc I can't
deny him. He is my friend. People that know me very well will tell you
that I love taking pictures and so we took lots of pictures and the guy
posted it on his Facebook page and some people copied it and started
posting it online. I have also kept mute about it and I would have still
keep mute if not that Tchidi raises it and wanted to use it to tarnish
my name. But is well.
My kids read what their daddy wrote about me and they asked me to
respond and tell the whole world that you are wonderful mother and that
they know and they are seeing everything and won't say anything till
they grow up! So am responding to this because of my three lovely boys
that I live for, that am blessed with.
I want to beg Tchidi to please allow me to concentrate and train my
kids with God's grace and help. I wish him the best in his new
marriage. I bless his new marriage with his new wife and I wish them
well. This will be my last statement. Even if Chidi pulls the mountain
to paint me black.. I will not respond again.
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